Jazz Musician wrote:
El Cieg - Love the story. You do need to adjust your tude here, whether in Florida or the midwest. American girls are...well, American girls. I've had a modicum of success over the past few years after my divorce, and it was never by kissing up. As an example, a girl, 30, that I regularly saw at my gym was a heavy iPod/earphones type chick. I would say hello and she would smirk. Over the course of a couple of months I struck up a few conversations with her and she always seemed inconvenienced. I stopped trying totally, not for some ulterior motive, but simply because I've learned to move on in this biz. Shortly thereafter she initiated a conversation one day that she was short a $1.50 for the train and was embarrassed. That led to dinner and a month of torrid sex. But too many things bothered me - not the least of which, she smoked.
The point is, you never know about American girls. The shit they have running through their brains must be awesome. Grandiose fantasies of Mr. Bad Boy and their coy manipulations that tame him just enough to be civil and mostly responsible - all media-driven, and backed up by a healthy dose of narcissism and self-loathing for their nesting instincts. And the more beautiful they are, the more phucked up their sense is of anything that's not about them.
Gringo - I got my 40,000 American Advantage ticket last week for my three-month stay in Rio this summer. You're right. It's better to be where the action is if you can. But not everybody has the time from their jobs, or can afford to move. And some would rather maintain a U.S. address. But I think even a few strategically planned escapes per year can be a boost for most guys. And with Latin dating websites and Camming, guys can even ask some of their fav's to strip for them - to tide them over, so to speak. More and more girls down there have internet in their homes, although you may need to buy them the CAM.
The gringa factor is not easy - for young guys or old. But then again creativity is often born of necessity. Perhaps we should all be thanking gringas for the creativity they have spawned in us - from how to be missing from work, to how to pay for trips, to how to relocate.
It's not the guys on CRT I feel sorry for, even with infrequent trips. It's the ones who know nothing - but the line of horseshit girls here spew - that I feel sorry for.
Damn, JM... right again, and as always well stated.
Okay... I'll take one for the team. I'll bang the incredibly hot, skinny, gorgeous, nubile, lubricious, heated little minx...just to prove that not all gringa sex is like screwing a wet sack of suet.

Even if I, a fat, 50 year-old gringo with nearly no money but shitloads of game and self-confidence feel somewhat like a wet sack of suet.
