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Me too Mia2Ewr. I always get a kick about the evil gringas.

I understand the humorous reaction some of our members have to the gringa bashing, but come on! You can't see the obvious cultural differences between the spoiled, entitled, pampered American woman and women of other cultures? You need to get out more.

1. 50% ofAmerican women surveyed in a recently published book called "Little White Lies" by Sonja Basha state that they are "ambivalent" about motherhood. Do the same survey in Africa, South America or Asia and you will, I guarantee get very different results.

2. American women now date based upon the annual earnings of prospective mates...and very little else. Scan the ads on match.com or even adultfriendfinder if you don't believe this.

3. American women, now having been given permission by the media are turning to lesbianism in droves. To me, this is a reflection of the narcissism we've cultivated in these pampered little princesses.

4. American/Canadian/western European women are gaining weight every year. Obesity rates among women between 18-34 (dating/mating age) is at an all-time high. I was in a Mexican restaurant Saturday with CRT'er Yunoit here in Minnesota. We were seated next to a table of four blondies, not one of whom would have rated over a "3" on a blind man's scale. The average tonnage per gringa came in at around 200 lbs. They were bragging how they were witholding sex from their husbands/boyfriends, because all had failed to deliver enough gifts/cash. Yuck... I wouldn't screw them with Muffdiver's dick and Circus pushing.

So...in short... I believe that much of this gringa-bashing is richly deserved...and BTW, I am not divorced.

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El C;
Not to be difficult but I couldn't help but respond to your 4 points.
1) A lot of American women are more interested in getting a Gucci purse than having, raising and caring for a Ch*ld. With too many people, IMHO, populating our country this may not be a bad thing. People seem to forget that a Ch*ld is not watch.
2) A lot of American women are lazy and would prefer their mate buy said purse. I am sure if you look at what men want on those sites you would see big boobs, little waist, etc. Or at least that's what I would want. And blonde.
3) I think this was a bit overstated. And if some girl wants to sample box in college let her chalk it up to "experimenting." In South Florida there is no shortage of lesbians, and I am confident the ones I see are not women I have ever, or will ever, be interested in.
4) In South Florida there are certainly some fatties but overall I feel the gals stay in reasonable shape. I agree that obesity is a real problem in America (for both men and women/young and old), but I would figure it would be moreso in Ohio or someplace cold.

Sure, some gringa-bashing is richly deserved, especially from the guys who have gone through the pain and hassle of divorce. I just think it's a little dramatic for one to say he won't date a native English speaker. when the poster, I assume, is a gringo. Of course, YMMV.

IMHO, one only needs to look at commercials in the good ol' USA. Men are portrayed as weak, and stupid. The women are smart and powerful. It is a far cry from the good old days of Father Knows Best, The Nelson's, and Leave it to Beaver. The man was portrayed completely different in that era, because men of that era hadn't given away their b*lls. As an American man that gave up his b*lls in marriage, I have helped create this scenario. For that, I am very sorry.

Once men reclaim their power, their women react to their men much differently. I have seen this happen in many relationships. If I would have kept my b*lls, my Gringa experience (marriage) would have been much different.

IMJ, if you aren't happy with the treatment you are getting from your woman, reclaim your power and your relationship will change for the better. I'm not talking about being mean, or nasty. Just take control which is what women really want anyway, although they will test you, and try to take your power from you constantly. If you retain your power and be the man, you will be happier, and so will she.

Health & happiness to all..

Steve - Santas Bro

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hmmm And Im sure that the gringos make such good mates to their gringas. haha The problem is that people are generally sheep and follow a set path. Men think they NEED to be married so they take what is available. Then when they have problems they realize they dont know the person they are with. Physically, I am not attracted to gringas in general and havent slept with one in a very long time. But sorry guys, this gringa boogeywoman is a figment of your imaginations.

Mia2Ewr,

I really did not want to get into this constructive dissagrement, BUT, You rebut El Ciego with examples from SOUTH FLORIDA AND WHAT PERCENT OF THESE GRINGAS ARE ACTUALLY OF LATIN HERRITAGE? And I have seen some beautiful and sexi lesbians in South Beach and thought "what a waste of pu*sy" sharing-ok; exclusive- a waste!! As for their putting the money factor first, I will site as an example, something that occured with my own daughter. Between husbands (both very wealthy) she once had a NEW boyfriend. I ask her what he looked like. Her response: "Dark blue BMW convertable"

And, yes, I have gone thru 2 divorces from Gringas and also 1 Korean and 1 Colombiana, Both of which VERY QUICKLY became Gringaized. Do I hate gringas?-NO! Do I want to be married to one? NO! Do I even want to date one? NO! Do I blame North American MEN for allowing Gringas to become what they are? Hell YES!!! Do I think it will ever change? Again HELL NO!

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Santa's Bro.,

You know I respect and love you like a wise older brother, but this business about reclaiming one's balls is mostly hot air and B.S. IMHO.

Men used to be the boss. Old movies show men, among other things slapping a chick in the face to "bring her out of her hysteria" and the slap gets followed by an impassioned kiss. Shit, you try that stuff nowadays, you're in jail. A husband could "force" himself on his wife, simply because she agreed to love and serve him when they took the vow. No more...there's actually a crime called "spousal rape." You're right, men are belittled in the media, John Wayne is dead and the "little woman" no longer exists, but taking charge (even in a far less violent manner than I described above) is no longer possible to any real degree.

And it is a gringa problem having its foundation in a culture of immediate gratification, unequal legal protection for males, media bias and many other factors which make the good old days a moot period of history.

Here's a good, recent example. I had to go see a woman doctor, because my regular guy is out on medical leave. In doing my physical, she didnot do the standard prostate exam. When I inquired as to why, she said that because she is female, she's not required to have any intimate contact with male patients. WTF?? BTW, there was no supervising (witness) nurse on hand during the exam...while women being examined by male docs ALWAYS have the right to have someone present, just in case the "evil man" tries something sexual. It was perhaps the most careless physical exam I've ever had, but when I complained about it, I was treated like a pervert for being an over-50 male who thought he had a right to a hernia check and prostate exam as part of his annual physical. I'm serious...they wouldn't even take my complaint and request to be seen by another doc free of charge seriously at the clinic.

I have had female HR execs turn me down for jobs because I am male, and they've told me so;. Imagine what would happen if a male HR guy told a woman that she was disqualified for a job on the basis of sex. Ridiculous.

No matter how hard we try to be alpha males (whatever that means), reclaim our balls, whatever...gringas will be gringas. They have no incentive to cooperate with males on any level, sexual or otherwise. They no longer have anything real to gain from us; if they want sex, there are women and dildos, if they want money they can work, if they want a baby, there are sperm banks and in vitro fertilization. We have been made redundant.

OTOH, women in other parts of the world have fewer options, which is why they appear to be "better" for us. It's about poverty and cultures that have not been uplifted ( ) by feminism that make non-gringas appear to be better.

I have a number of young male friends here in my little town. All have decent jobs, none are in bad shape, none are ugly, none are homeless... and none are getting laid.

I rest my case.

Yeah S.B., reclaim your balls. Then put them away until your next trip to a country where men are still valued, if only for their cash.

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El Ciego Wrote:


I always appreciate input, it matters not that you (or others) agree, or disagree, with me. I don't feel the need to have to be right in my life anymore. It is just my judgment which does not make it right. There is no right, nor wrong, in talking about such a very subjective matter anyway. If I could find a way to make my judgment right, I would be a rich man.

As far as men reclaiming their balls/manhood (call it what you wish) I have seen it work with many men in a group that I belong to. They have renewed respect for themselves, and while their wives resisted at first, they now are happier also. Had I known then what I know now, IMJ, I would still be married, and happily. Should you care to read about it: www.mkp.org. I believe that all men should go through the weekend. It is truly a life changing event.

It is first reclaiming myself, as who I really am. If I do that, all else falls into place. Have you allowed positive changes in your life since our chat? I hope so. My life is dramatically different since I reclaimed who I really am. I wish the same for all. Our American society has taken our sacred manhood away, and I unfortunately let them. I will not allow it to happen again.

Reclaiming my balls is just an euphemism (and probably a poor one) for reclaiming myself, and my power.

You are right about the older part. Wise, h*ll I'm just a poor boy from Compton. I also love you like a brother.

Health & happiness...

Steve - Santas Bro

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In California, Latina's are actually the fattest of them all.....

They're not all 22 and in delicious shape here in South Florida either

Hmm..some very elevated thinking going on here IMHO. Naturally, there are shades of truth in all these posts. It is difficult to generalize about a whole population of human beings, known on this board collectively as "gringas." You can take an enlightened feminist on one hand and an enlightened "bitch-hating" monger on the other - and come out with two "truths." The fat old feminist with the mole on her nose would have all kinds of ammo about the uncivilized treatment women have endured since suffrage in 1920, when the nineteenth amendment was ratified. The monger with his dick in his hand would have a laundry list of complaints, citing men's slow drift into social and financial ruin after the "post free-love" movement of the 1960's, and after "women's rights" issues began to make headlines.

Neither side has dibs on "absolute truth." There is only your "truth," your life, and of course your money. For those men who feel happy with their gringa (or gringas generally), and are as happy with them as with any other woman or ethnic group, fantastic! If your "value" to a woman here, or to women in general here is high, then traveling can be for sight-seeing only. You're set! But if you find your stock goes up when in the presence of women in other cultures - with p4p, civilians, or both - there's really no need to apologize to anyone. No justification is necessary.

I always find odd the argument that "over there" you are valued, but here you "wouldn't have a chance." The suggestion is that the girls "over there" have poor judgement, are inferior, opportunistic, and desperate, but that girl's opinions here are the true test of man's value. Why do we do that to ourselves? That appears to be empowering the very bitches that we're railing against. Who cares what stock you have "here" if you're happy "there?" It's as if we put ourselves down for having found a fulfilling alternative, when we don't get the approval we feel entitled to here.

It's very simple to me after nearly 30 trips to Rio and as many to other Latin destinations. Women are women, girls are girls, and all want about the same thing; love, sex, passion, and companionship. It's universal. But you are a novelty there, have a few bucks, speak a different language, and offer a chance at a better life - whether now or later. Girls there often prefer older guys and who cares why? They do and when they do, your value is higher. That's all that matters.

Now, about that Advantage flight....

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"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

Jazz,

Some really good points.

Just look at an Australian man here compared to us. The Ausie has the accent & is different than the normal Gringo guy. There is more intrigue & mystery about him than we will ever have in the Gringas eye. So many people are looking for something "different" that they can experience & show off to their peers. There is just some curb appeal to it all just like we have to these native women we meet in a foreign country.

We all have seen how so many Latinas have had some bad experiences with their native men & hence they see them as somewhat boring & less likely to really change their life. So many people just want change & look at others to provide this than doing it on their own.

One thing for sure is there is such a huge risk financially for any guy to sign on with anyone if he has anything!!!

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