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You could title the above "The Recipe for Disaster". It is the worst possible way to go about having a great night on the town unless you already know the girl well and she has previously performed well.

The dinner and dancing and drinking and offer of TLN are all rewards for a girl who has already done a great job at making you happy. Otherwise, it is the worst method of upfront payment.

First, you are picking girls because both you and your wingman are okay with her and her wingwoman. About 90% of the time, one monger is happy with the choice and the other is taking one for the team. Not good.

Second, because you have provided your "date" with an ally, she has twice the power and opportunity to rip you off. She and her accomplice can work you and your wingman all night. Unless you are fluent in Spanish, they can scheme right in front of you. Even if their motives are good, they have someone to pal with so the chances of her being real attentive to you are greatly diminished. Unless you intend to get naked with the girls together, there is no reason for them to be friends ahead of time. Try to make sure they don't hate each other but two girls who are similarly attractive and of the same social class is a better bet than two buddies (two Tica 8s or two Colombiana 10s but don't put a Tica 6 and a Colombiana 9 together...). They will both be attentive to the men instead of each other and they won't have a prearranged plan to fleece you. When her wingwoman decides to bail at 4:00am she does not get to take your girl with her!

Third, think of the message you send when you heap all this attention and expense on a girl you don't know. You are giving her a tremendous advantage. Every time you spend money on her before she has sessioned empowers her to do less than her best. You have a sizable investment by the time you get her back to the room and she knows it. You are "pot committed" and she has done nothing yet. She already got the reward for showing you a good time, you have shown that you are weak for her, why shouldn't she jack the price or short the services? You have already let her know how much you want her. She has all the power.

Forth, you are buying a pig in a poke! You have not been with her, what is she like in the sack? What happens when you find out she has poor skills or bad hygiene or a crappy bedroom attitude? You already spent all that time and money so you go through with it and may even tell your wingman you had a good time when in fact you have regrets. For every one tale of this scenario going right, I have nine stories of miserable performance. It is top loaded to fail.

If you want a GFE:

-Find a girl that you like. Let your wingman find his own girl. That way they are focused on you not each other. They aren't going to be naked in the same room so they don't have to be buddies.

-After you have found the girl and have had at least one great session with her (more than one is better) then mention a night on the town. Make it something she wants to do because she knows you and knows she has a good time with you. She has already been to bed with you so make sure she knows she is getting this offer because she is a good match and a good performer, not just because you think she's hot. This puts the power ball back in your court: What you are doing is based on logic and performance, not desire.

-Mention the TLN possibility but make no promises before the fact. You want her to have the evening free but don't want to lock yourself in. You are much more likely to get her best price at the end of a good evening rather than in advance. In this way, you can also easily cut the evening short if you decide you just want an hour of her private time for whatever reason. The more you build it up as a big time, the more she sees you have invested mentally and physically, the more power she has to negotiate higher prices or show you less than the best time. Make her earn it!

Recipe for a good evening for me: Be well rested and well groomed. Stay flexible and keep options open. Be personable and outgoing but not needy. Avoid excessive alcohol and keep thinking with my big head. Make no promises and don't fall in love.

Another option for a great evening is to go to a strip club with a few CRT members. Go with some guys that are in no hurry to get somewhere else. Go to a club that has plenty of hotties at a good price. You can have a great time , bang a hot chick for cheap and still be back at KL before 1am. Once there you can find a little hottie thats been partying and in a good mood. If you have a connection with her it should be pretty easy to get TLN at a good price because it's late and she likes you. These are usually my best nights. Try to avoid girls that travel in pairs if one is trying to hard to push her amiga on your buddy. This turns out bad more often than not.

I understand exactly where you're coming from, and maybe a bit more. Sometimes the night out is part of the fun, and there has even been the rare night for me when sex wasn't involved. I go to CR to have experiences I can't have in the USA, and that includes drinking, eating, and dancing with hotties. Don't be afraid to expand your horizons, including in directions that you may not have thought of.

SR