www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I probably have the best gringa a monger could want. Before my first trip to CR she was well aware of the opportunities. I emailed her photos after my first night and she was shocked to learn of the options. She has even said “I don’t blame you. If I were a guy I’d be all about it too.” We agree that this is high-risk behavior but then we all engage in high risk behavior and take the risk with the thrill.

I will be hitting CR again in the next few weeks for a week to 10 days and she is planning on joining me for 2-3 nights. She wants to check out the DR and the MPs and even suggested that we ought to plan on a 2-bedroom suite for when she is in town in case she wants more sleep.

Life is good.

I feel for those guys who have to resort to covering their tracks. Damned shame, really.

I think it would be relatively easy for someone to webmaster up a website with a façade hotel that even provides a receipt, etc. that we can print on-line.

Myself, I don’t like spinning tales and lies. The deeper you get the harder it is to keep everything straight and if/when your cover is blown she will see the cover-up as long-term, widespread and highly deceitful as opposed to “honey I was really drunk one night while in the casino and this chica offered a massage for $50 and one thing lead to another….gee I’m really sorry….” to cover up a seemingly one-time event.

I guess there isn’t a 100% good way to cover one’s tracks. Several years ago when we first got high speed internet and the world of mongering laid itself out for me to explore on-line, I began working on the gringa….I started with the adult bookstore/massage parlors….”honey, the MP is just like a strip club except the girl gets naked and gives you a massage.” After some convincing she opened up to the idea. Of course once I came home my story was “OMG you’ll never believe it, I gave a little hottie $50 for a massage and she finished me with a HJ!!” Next it was the asian MPs, and then on to other venues….next it was “hey baby let’s go to a nudist camp and check that place out……..” and finally CR.

I was lucky enough that my gringa slowly accepted my descent into full mongerhood in this piecemeal fashion. I suspect that I am among the lucky 5% or so whose espousas are cool with the mongering as long as it is kept safe and in the proper (no love) perspective.

I have several friends who are couples and are swingers. In almost every case, it has been the guy who has encouraged the lady to get into the lifestyle. And when I talk to these ladies, they tell me that the first conversation about swinging with their mate left the lady in disbelief and total opposition, but gentle encouragement and slow immersion to events, meeting others, etc. softened them up and now these ladies are fancy free.

I think most guys would be surprised at how naughty their wives want to be and what limits they will accept if they feel it is a 2-way street. If you are willing to let your gringa explore a strings-free sexual event with a stranger or other, that would go a long way towards winning her comfort with an alternative lifestyle. She probably has had a long-term desire for a big black C*ck (or two) and if you suggested that such fantasy is a possible reality…..

I don’t have a good feel for how many gringas might loosen up, but I suspect most of you would be surprised at the results if you GENTLY encourage your lady to see life from a different angle.

In my case it took about 5 years to earn my total freedom in increments. This investment has been well worth it. I can securely do what I most want to do and know that my lady will actually enjoy hearing the details afterwards. Hell, she has even indicated the desire to watch and possibly participate in some way. She jokes from time to time that when we are old and she is ornery I’ll retire to CR and she’ll be there with me to watch the parade of hotties that run through our retirement condo.

This relationship took lots of work on my part, and we are very secure to begin with. My situation is probably rare but I can’t stress enough how good it feels to not have to worry about what she thinks, and what a relief to know that when we are old and wrinkly that I can still have my fun.

Of course, you mileage WILL vary. But I get high mileage…..the day we got married I would have bet my life that she’d never go for all this…..you never know unless you open that conversation….

Been married 18 years and have no intention of changing that for anyone. That said, I just can’t help myself...

One if the nice things about a place like the gulch is that I can go there and get it out of my system for a while. There have been many that thought that mongering was the perfect life until they did it full time.

There are many that started mongering and found themselves a significant other while doing it. Each to their own but a good alibi is the way to go for me.

Thanks for the link Jim. I guess I wasn’t the first guy to ever need this type of service!

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Nice post crookedcr, good perspective, you are a rare lucky person indeed to have worked out the kinks in your favor.

They exist. Believe it or not, some guys cannot handle it. I provide an example. When I was a young university administrator, I use to give a ride to one of the administrative assistants within my unit. We lived near each other, and she did not drive. One day she confessed that she was looking, as her husband left. HE WANTED A DIVORCE. I did not inquire, but she nevertheless explained.

It appeared that good old, Roman Catholic husband wanted to be able to see other women on the side. He confessed to his wife. Well, she did not have a problem with it. She told him fine, so long as he did not disrespect her or the house. In other words, he was free to sample other tail so long as he kept the other tail from the household and kept the other relationships strictly sexual. He could not take it. He told his wife that he did not feel comfortable with this permission, and believed it best to leave.

After she told me this, I received an appointment at another university across the country. There are days where I smack myself for not marrying this woman myself, when she presented her story. Oh, it gets better: She confessed that she had no desire to play, she simply believed that the average man cannot be tied to one woman.

Lord, have mercy.

QBF i have to agree that alibi website is ingenious. I am glad that i'll never have to use it !